International | Of Mars and Venus

Why young men and women are drifting apart

Diverging worldviews could affect politics, families and more

An illustration depicting a young woman and a young man leaning against opposite sides of a brick wall
Illustration: Louise Zergaeng Pomeroy
|Atlanta, Beijing and Warsaw

In a trendy food market in Warsaw, Poland’s capital, two female engineers are discussing how hard it is to meet a nice, enlightened man. Paulina Nasilowska got a big pay rise a few years ago. Her boyfriend asked: “Did you have an affair with your boss?” He is now an ex-boyfriend.

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